Saturday, 21 May 2016

Reasons why you must befriend with someone who think a lot.

Thinking is a full time job, and we're still unemployed. We all think a lot, don't we?
I hadn't been planning to write specifically about thinkers, but then, the universe is the wittiest strategist, right?
We all have a person in our life who thinks more than we can think of thinking. He is not a mind reader, but he can be a strong conversationalist and quite a keen observer. Talk to him once and he can unfold all the closed chapters of your life.
I have developed a kind of liking for the people like them.
Although the reasons why you must befriend with someone who think a lot, is too long to sum up, but a few of them are as follows:-

1) They understand life a bit more than you do.
Well, they actually do. Look into their eyes, and you can see the purest and the most tranquil form of you, looking back at you, with a sense of chivalry and confidence.

2) Your secrets are never revealed.
Confine your dark of the darkest secret, and forget the key. They're never judgemental, they always see you from a better perspective and believe that people are really good at heart.
You can cry your heart out in front of them.

3) They are all ears.
Talk about relationships, talk about career issues, talk about your crushes, talk about families, talk about siblings, talk about friends, talk about foes, talk about skies, talk about moon, talk about stars, talk about anything and everything. They'll listen to every bit of your words.

4) World is a beautiful place.
When you get suicidal thoughts, give them a call. They'll invalidate all your opinions of quitting, and will make you fall in love with the world. They'll tell you why you need to live. World is a beautiful place, and you're a beautiful person.

5) They talk a lot, but they seldom speak.
I, personally, find it the most fascinating quality about them. You'll find them chitchatting with every second person, but you'll never see them speaking. They teach you the difference between talking and speaking.

6) They're romantic.
If you're looking for a committed relationship, they can be the best choice.
They will notice each and every single detail about you without letting you know. They will keep surprising you with the knowledge they have attained about you, everyday. You just can't resist your urge to fall in love with them.

7) They're usually friendship deprived, but they, themselves, prove to be true friends.
Because they're hard to understand, people often fail to know the real them. They don't have many friends, but believe me, befriending them can be a wise decision.

8) They're not aliens. They are as extraordinary as you.
They can be extroverts, introverts, and sometimes, ambiverts. They're socially active people, full of life, love partying. They can act a little different when they ask you to go to some less discovered place, or spends time staring at million stars.

9) They're not scared of loneliness
They know that there is a ray of hope in darkness. They try to find it, every night. They're not afraid of darkness. They are often seen walking alone, traveling alone, eating alone. Loneliness is a perfect gift, at times.

10) Last but not the least,
Deep inside, you too are the person I am talking about, aren't you?
It's just a matter of seperating the facts from fiction. Befriend with yourself.

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